How Can My Husband Love Me And Have An Affair, Men Who Lie And Cheat

My husband keeps lying

Therefore, little bits of additional data seeped out. I figured he might have realised, once this was behind us, that he needed to say the truth. And yet, in little white lies, I’m always catching him, he’s going to come and find out. He ate somewhere else or he’s going to mess up the order to do stuff, husband is cheating and lying

Lying cheating husband

A mistake is just a mistake sometimes. In the early stages of our recovery, for instance, I thought every time my husband misspoke, it was such a big deal. I thought that any time he was late, it was potentially disastrous.

Lying in marriage

So just never, do you know my approach was that the benefit of the doubt would be granted before it no longer made sense to do that. If too many items are suspicious, well, then paying attention is wise. But if someone only goes wrong every once in a while and their conduct is otherwise sound, then it can be natural.

Lies cheating

After an affair, there is nothing wrong with insisting on total honesty and reality. They’re both important. That can be worrying if he’s lying regularly and about important things. But if he’s just misrepresenting innocent stuff as you try to catch him at any turn, then it might be more innocent.

Lying and cheating

1) Continue and lie — No matter the consequences, a large number of men who cheat do not refrain. Even after their unfaithfulness or part of it, anyway has been revealed, and even though their world is collapsing around them, they keep going. The good news is that this category does not fall on all men. Many feel profound guilt and change their behaviour, without slipping, until it’s revealed.

Husband lies

3) Apologizing, then expecting immediate forgiveness, or asking it — Some cheating men apologise and think the conclusion of the argument should be, water under the bridge. And when a partner does not see things the same way, they will get upset or angry.

Cheating and lying

5) Attempting to calm you down — Has your partner ever said something like, “Relax, it’s not even a big deal. You overreact. I love you, you know, and I always have. These efforts to calm you down, even if momentarily successful, cannot and don’t repair the loss of relationship confidence caused by infidelity.

What to do when husbands lie

Honestly, getting a counsellor to ask your husband about contradictions is one of the best things to do in this case. You don’t have to be the bad guy that way, and you don’t have to feed on your fears and fear.

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