When A Guy Just Wants To Be Friends After Dating

Games In Love
5 min readFeb 2, 2021

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It’s awkwardness or open-eyed what it is actually when a guy just wants to be friends after dating, recently I received a message from him whose I was dating. Being friend-zoned might feel like the end of the world, but here’s what you need to realize; how someone feels towards you is not a reflection of who you are.

Its real-time story belongs to my life when I was totally involved with a guy and we were dating for almost 7months. A little bit here and there but we were sort of becoming a little bit more established, we hadn’t said that we were exclusive but we were doing really well in dating stages.

We were sexually involved, We had compatibility, Had chemistry. We saw each other often a week. Instantly he started giving me a wrong gaze.

Remember — There’s a certain gaze someone gives you when they’re into you, pay attention to their focus, and length of gaze.

One day all of a sudden he says, You know I think I just want to be friends now…

Well this is Awkward,

I don’t know if I really feel that much chemistry towards you. His words made me relay astonished, believe me. All my dating chain of memories walkthrough running like an old picture in my mind that this guy just wants to be friends after dating, how come??

So what are you doing in a situation like this, When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, share your views with us.

Moving forward, When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, What you do then??

a) Do you hang in there and hope that he changes his mind

b) Do you think that maybe he’s just confused, so you’re gonna try and change his mind

Hmm.

Well, my advice would be, if somebody turns around and tells you after you’ve been intimate with them, you’ve had quite a bit of conversation going.

All this with them, they just decide…

They want to be friends, believe them because what’s happened is, they went in too fast maybe they thought they were ready. They thought there was a chemistry, things change, they don’t feel the same way.

Advice — When someone is really really interested they don’t want to be friends, I experienced this personally. I can tell you that much for sure so don’t sit there. Try to figure out a way that you can change their mind.

You’re gonna be hurt obviously because she put some time and energy into this person but the trick is to know when to walk away. Don’t waste your time with somebody who’s actually been really honest and told you now. We can be all mad about it.

Advice — Instead of continuously chasing them, do yourself a favor meet Mr nice guy, who values you. It is possible you owe it to yourself to find true happiness, not validation.

Why didn’t you know this in the beginning?
Because sometimes you just aren’t sure, you go along with it. You try to see if maybe you can make things go well.

At times, they don’t but again remember, if you go in really fast into a relationship where you’re jumping the gun on everything, you’re meeting all their friends or meeting your family or hanging out all for this great intimacy deep connection, a lot of times the only other place that goes is “Downhill”, Be aware.

I also learned from my mistakes after 7months of dating, so much involvement, going too fast in the dating stages then suddenly he says just be friends…

Because girls involved in a relationship too quickly, do everything so fast to get it, where you want it to be that all of a sudden one little thing jumps into a place that isn’t really working.

After that you say oh maybe this isn’t for me, you start running in the opposite direction, this can happen a lot with men as well as with women but my advice to you,

=> If you’re dealing with this situation better to walk away from it, don’t sit there then see them, try and change their mind maybe they’ll come back later on and say I screwed up I shouldn’t have done that.

They start texting and interacting over social media because it’s an easy way to connect again as there is no commitment over there. We try again or whatever but don’t sit there whenever they want to see you because maybe they’ll just make it work for them, be a buddy-buddy ok guy.

You don’t want, that’s not what you started dating or signed up for with them “you want a relationship with someone to love you”. So if somebody tells you they just want to be friends or when a guy just wants to be friends after dating??

Believe them move on and find somebody who wants to be in a relationship with you, who never leaves you in the middle.

I know that sounds harsh but that’s just the way it is.

Special Advice — listen to what people tell you when you’re in a new relationship because they will be there, things they give away, and sometimes they are showing signs or intimations before you actually hear they just want to be friends after dating so long, however, pay attention.

I hope this would provide you a little bit of solution with advice that how to deal with a situation when a guy just wants to be friends after dating, those who have been dealing in the same situation can ask queries at Games in love.

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